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Family and Love, are you still attractive for your husband?

Posted by: gugulovesme on: November 5, 2008

Do you make yourself attractive for your husband?Feminine attractiveness does not depend on the tone of the skin nor on a perfect bone structure.

An unattractive woman invariably displays negative emotions like anger, resentment, fear, anxiety, shyness, scorn or boredom, while most attractive women have an open face, a warm smile, a sparkle in the eye and a warm spontaneity. It is not for nothing that God advises women to concentrate on their inner beauty (1 Peter 3:4) since this is the basis for outer beauty. Read the rest of this entry »

Your Children or Your Husband? Whose needs you put the first?

Posted by: gugulovesme on: November 5, 2008

Do you cleave more to your children than to your husband?The Bible states very clearly that a husband and wife must cleave to each other. Yet it is very easy for a mother to put the needs of her children above the needs of her husband.

Many homes are completely dominated by the activities and schedules of the children. Many a wife has refused to accompany her husband on a business trip, or even go out for an evening because of the demands of the children. Read the rest of this entry »

Are you a Home manager? For Loving Housewives

Posted by: gugulovesme on: November 5, 2008

Is your housekeeping an end in itself?Do you manage your household with the needs of your family in mind, or has it become a showpiece to highlight your own mastery? Janet is a very meticulous housekeeper. The vacuum cleaner is permanently on standby to remove any dirt immediately. The children have to take their shoes off before they may walk into the lounge — and woe her poor husband if he leaves his newspaper lying around, or puts his feet on the coffee table! Her house is not a home — it’s just a spotless building. Read the rest of this entry »

Are you the perfect life Companion of your husband?

Posted by: gugulovesme on: November 3, 2008

Are you fun to live with? Do you laugh a lot together or does he associate you with complaining? When he suggests doing something or going somewhere do you agree enthusiastically or do you usually express your reservations? One of the things that a woman has to learn is that it is more important to have fun in the swimming pool with her family than to keep her hair in perfect shape. Or that getting all the housework done is not nearly as important as playing games with the family. Read the rest of this entry »

The wife of happy husband, for women only!

Posted by: gugulovesme on: November 3, 2008

The authority-submission principle

It always surprises me that people vehemently oppose the authority-submission principle in marriage, although it is accepted in every other aspect of life. God placed the husband in the position of head of the home (I Corinthians 11:3) for only one reason: to ensure good order and to prevent chaos. What would happen in a school where there was no principal or acting- principal? What would happen to a ship that had no captain? What would happen to a hospital without a medical superintendent? What would happen to a business that had no manager? The answer is easy enough: chaos will reign. Read the rest of this entry »

Love Soul Soup for Him

Posted by: gugulovesme on: October 31, 2008

No messy divorce. Instead, you have one of those made-in-heaven marriages. He’ll take care of you when you’re old. He really, really loves you. Read the rest of this entry »

Happily Ever After, how a good man catches Love Hearts?

Posted by: gugulovesme on: October 31, 2008

  1. The biggest payoff first: he wants to marry you! Most women bring up marriage or the future after a couple of weeks or months of dating a man. They want to know where the relationship is going. Most likely, it’s going nowhere because men don’t want to be pushed into proposing. As a girl, you’ve been trained not to bring up marriage or kids. You talk about books, business, politics, football, and the weather. Read the rest of this entry »

From Millwood through the Passes

Retrace your route past the forestry station and turn right onto the tarred road. The tar soon gives way to gravel, and the road winds down to an iron-girder bridge across the Homtini River. After the bridge, the road climbs out of the gorge, passes through farmlands, then drops again to the Karatara River. Read the rest of this entry »

This drive explores one of the most romantic regions in southern Africa — the emerald- green landscape of Knysna, the old gold mines that can still be visited in the forests nearby, and the string of glittering lakes that stretches eastwards from Wilderness. More than half of the route is tarred, and the rest is good gravel. Read the rest of this entry »

When the Railway reached George, after years of delay, the entire town turned out to watch the first train puff into the station. During the festivities, the archdeacon observed that its arrival would be like the kiss of the handsome prince that woke the Sleeping Beauty. Perhaps he was right — there is certainly a fairy-tale quality in a journey by steam train through this fascinating part of the southern Cape. Read the rest of this entry »

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  • cacklinrose: Oh! OH! So it's my fault if my husband decides to break his vows, go against God's commandments, and have an affair??!! Are you serious???!!!
  • cacklinrose: I can't believe that you BOUGHT A HOME without your lifemate's input and then were hurt when she wasn't thrilled that you didn't care enough about her
  • lwayswright: while I admire what you write here and agree that you should try to stay attractive for your spouse, I think the key word I am using is SPOUSE! I oft

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